DLSD Alternative

Want we really want out of life is a long term connection with people. Most of the time things get blown up and we get distracted by the wind. Failure is always the start of a new conversation when the relationship is the point. We simply can't do any better next time, it's a transformation we can't predict. To keep dead things buried, we just don't need feedback once our lives are over. This sucks and hurts.  #2019 Life Reflections 

Pessimism is such a weakness of mine but I have learnt to forgive myself, it's not my fault. On the Other hand, In 2019 I accepted that somethings about people are unknowable. The future is too unpredictable and neither optimism nor pessimism creates an alternative future. Conclusions, am done, no more fixes am not a work in progress 🤷🏻‍♂

Make a wish! Actually, you don't have to. Just tell me the expection you have in mind for another. Are you waiting for another persons transformation.  Are you waiting to be chosen, or your boss to take care of you and maintain eye contact.  Aye! That's a wish for a better parent. Reparent yourself! DLSD Alternative 

In the interview was this question. The question was with the interviewer and the question was the interview. Anything else you say after answering this question was judged against you. So you must of habit learn to manipulate using the stories you tell about yourself.  That was the beginning of woes. You must make stories on your feet. If you can't, you may be fired.  Tell me the story..."I want to hear".  DLSD Alternative 

If you are anxious about it, you obviously are paying attention. Make your request known. That was just inspired by philippians 4:6 Don't assume I have something in mind. Sometimes I just don't care about what I think until we start talking. Interested and curious. Almost as anxious. 

Is there an alternative way of staying together if we remove the promises of sex and money from our relationships? I believe there is.  if only we can only have an alternative conversation. We can have a connectedness around our gifts, what we can do, what we care about and the future we want to create together.  Within all of us is this longing for intimacy. I feel it is real. #DLSD - Designing Life Selling Dreams 

The nice things steal our humanity. Later we think they owe us something. Case in point, you stare at your phone, scrolling over the status and stories of folks and end up feeling Isolated.  Did you expect a sort of a hug back? Same to your car, Television , education or boss.  Design your life and sell your dream.  #DLSD Alternative